Testimonials

• In May 2018, I started a program of 5 sessions with Dorte. I was recommended to contact Dorte by a good friend. I felt stuck in single life with too many bad experiences in my backpack regarding relationships and love life.
  Dorte’s very positive personality and approach to things, and the fact that she speaks from personal experience has given me a lot. Taught me to think and approach things differently. Not only regarding love life but also in other areas that life contains.

  I have definitely gained courage and desire to date again and am sure that love will be found on my path in life. I can only give the best recommendations. Klaus S., August 2018

• Thank you for “coming” into my life, at the right place and helping me free from the past’s “JUNK”. Together, we have done a “head-cleaning” and spent time and energy on weeding out the “own garden”. So now there is strength and desire again to invite love in. I now know that I deserve the best and that “tapping” with Dorte was the best gift I could give myself. You made me resume the joy of embracing canvases, brushes, and colors. From the dark and sad colors, joy and warmth slowly emerged. I can warmly recommend Dorte, she is a sweet person. Merethe, Vejle, June 2018

• In my 37-year-old life, there’s almost no kind of therapy I haven’t tried. Over the last 12 years, I’ve tried everything from gestalt group therapy, deep dating in the tantra world to support courses for adult children of alcoholics to sessions with a cognitive psychologist, retreats, clairvoyance, and completed a self-esteem counselor education. And more. I feel better, but I still carry a great sorrow and pain that I don’t know how to ‘talk’ my way out of. I stumbled upon the lecture ‘Thank you for leaving me’ and it sounded quite different and like something I could relate to. The lecture touched something very central in me. I chose to go to tapping therapy 5 times with Dorte. I will never ever regret that. My deepest wish in this world is to find love and have a family consisting of a lovely man and maybe one or two children. However, I have far from succeeded yet. With a father who delivered sperm in the 70s style and then didn’t really want anything to do with me; and a mother who just wanted to have a child, even though she has had a massive alcohol problem throughout my life, I have a fundamental belief and deep feeling that nobody wants me and that I’m not good enough. Betrayal, abuse, low self-esteem, no shown or spoken feelings are pictures of my upbringing and have continuously been a cornerstone in my adult life. My mother has been quite tough after all, and with the conditions she had, my upbringing has given me a determination professionally and I am very goal-oriented when it comes to work and the more masculine and ‘hard’ goals. However, I have never felt I was worthy of love from a man. It has been expressed a lot in years with many changing partners, a lot of unhappy infatuations, and many ‘wrong’ men on my path. A path characterized by a lot of tears, big question marks, and low self-esteem. I strongly believe that you attract people where you are yourself, and I didn’t know that the challenge and patterns actually lay with me. As Dorte says, I am the only constant in my life. I had no idea that it was actually me who was emotionally unavailable. I didn’t know that my self-images and patterns could and should be changed, but it became very clear that this is where my challenges were hidden. I have been to Dorte 5 times now. I have gained a completely new conviction and I can physically feel that my everyday life has become easier. There is no doubt that my traumas have been stuck in my body. The images and situations, colors and feelings that emerged during Dorte’s tapping were quite clear and showed me the way very well. Together we found the core of some of my patterns, where all my pain started and got these images turned into something positive. It was a very powerful tool for me and the energies have really helped. I now believe that I can achieve my big dreams and that it will happen. I have a completely different belief in myself and the future. I will meet love when the time is right. I am so incredibly grateful to Dorte for her guidance and attitude and her methods to help me. She is really skilled, and her empathy and way of approaching me and my situation was incredibly present. Tapping with Dorte is one of the best gifts I could give myself. Anne A., Herning, April 2018

• Dorte’s approach and her therapeutic treatments have meant the world to me and made a life-changing difference. I will never forget Dorte and will forever be grateful to her – she is one of a kind! When I first came to Dorte, my life was in turmoil on several levels. At that time, I had been on sick leave and partial sick leave for 8 months due to burnout – I could work a maximum of 10 hours a week and was still completely drained when I got home. Burned out in relation to work and in my private life. I received a lot of guidance from various professionals, and many indications suggested that I probably wouldn’t be able to work full-time again. I also tried alternatives like acupuncture and hypnotherapy in the hope of getting better, but the results never came. During my illness, I had also been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and sleep apnea. Finally, after 9 months of partial sick leave, I had to go on full-time sick leave again – without having been able to increase my working hours or energy levels.

I came to Dorte in May 2017 with completely flat batteries and thus a lack of energy to handle even an ordinary day. I knew about TFT/EFT and had previously had good results with it, but for less problematic issues. I didn’t know much about Matrix Reimprinting. I was skeptical about whether Dorte could help me with my massive problem when nothing else had really made a difference until now. It quickly became clear that I had a lot of baggage that needed to be sorted out. The first thing we tackled was of course my poor sleep, which indicated sleep apnea and required treatment with an oxygen mask at night. When I was to be hospitalized and receive the final verdict after 2 months with Dorte, my sleep apnea symptoms had disappeared, and I was sent home without a machine and without sleep apnea. I was overjoyed. Then we could concentrate on getting me back to work. On August 14, 2017, I gradually returned to work starting with 10 hours – not struggling this time, but with an authentic energy and presence in my work that I hadn’t had for a long time. Now as we approach the end of 2017, I expect to be back full-time from January 1, 2018.

I am certain that I would not have reached this point without the techniques that Dorte applies so well and professionally. My private physical energy at home is not quite as far along as at work. Fortunately, I have become happier and more socially outgoing again, but I still don’t have much energy to handle household tasks, so they continue to pile up. I have also started dating again and am slowly breaking down the heart wall I had built around myself since childhood. That heart wall is probably the reason why I have been single for 7 years and haven’t been able to fall in love since my divorce, out of fear of being hurt and abandoned. The wall isn’t completely broken down yet, but hope is beginning to grow that it can be, and that I will meet love again – and this time, a love that doesn’t hurt and destroy. I look forward to reaching the point where I can feel the change in all aspects of my life. I have no doubt that with Dorte’s help, I can get there. It has been quite a journey, but as I said, there was a lot to clean up.

I give Dorte my warmest recommendations. She has helped and inspired me so much that I hope to eventually learn what she knows and make as big a difference for others as she has made for me. Thank you from the heart. Anette, Skanderborg

• More free, more honest, more happy, and apparently significantly less prone to stress, plus an inner calm and confidence – these are the main things I’ve gained from 5 sessions with Dorte. I generally have a scientific approach to the world, and was mildly speaking a bit skeptical about Dorte and the theories behind tapping. Although I may still not be ready to buy the entire theoretical package, I would at any time confirm that tapping is an incredibly effective tool for changing unfortunate thought patterns and habits. What Dorte does works! Dorte’s approach, through tapping therapy, is to heal the wounds and experiences that sometimes make you act the way you do. After my 5 sessions, my negative and counterproductive thought patterns are somehow just not in play anymore!?! – It’s a trippy experience. Tapping Coach – coaching in love, it says on the website – but you get much, much more than that. Partly because the background for your love problems affects your life in other ways too, and partly because tapping works quite well on a much broader level. I can only recommend a visit to the Tapping Coach. Be open, go 100% into it, and you will have a fascinating, surprising and unforgettable experience – that’s at least what it became for me, Karsten, Aarhus

• After hearing the lecture “Thank you for leaving me” I had no doubt that Dorte Ravn and her tapping coaching was my way forward. I have a long marriage and a relationship behind me that didn’t last. I have never fully understood what went wrong and have wanted to become wiser about my part in it. I am in good emotional contact with myself and am not afraid to talk about feelings, “mistakes/shortcomings” on my side of the field. I have been seeing a good psychologist over the years and have also had that good feeling of understanding “everything” when I left. Yet I acted and reacted in exactly the same way in emotionally pressured situations no matter how much I had talked with the psychologist or others!

Now I know why! It’s in the body and in the subconscious. I’m super good at “talking” about my feelings, but my reactions are in my body. Therefore, I could easily decide intellectually to act differently in a given situation, but when the situation arose, my body’s memory took over. And that’s exactly what Dorte has helped me with. What used to trigger me and provoke an inappropriate reaction or behavior pattern is now broken. I notice it, but it no longer affects me. Dorte’s way of guiding me through the process beats everything I’ve tried. Dorte is empathetic, present, respectful, caring, and incredibly skilled at her profession. Try it if you want to move forward in life. Ulla Ostenfeld, Vejle

• I saw a post about the lecture and thought it might be interesting to hear about others’ problems with love. I had gotten a bit stuck in my love life; the relationships I ended up in quickly became tedious, and I kept making the same mistakes over and over. It was a very interesting lecture where Dorte talked about her life and broken relationships. What I especially noticed was that many of the choices we make, we make unconsciously, and to change them we need to work with our subconscious. It has really opened my eyes to what it takes to feel better and make good choices going forward. After the lecture, I contacted Dorte to start a program with her, which I can also warmly recommend. Anonymous man from kammerat.nu
• I would like to recommend the fantastic Dorte Ravn – Tapping Coach – and her groundbreaking therapy, which works with the body’s memory regarding difficult experiences that create echoes all the way into adult life. For an intellectually gifted woman like me, it’s super good to involve the body and set aside reason and intellect. Something completely different from what I have previously experienced with conventional psychotherapeutic methods. Dorte – you get a big 5-star echo from my heart to yours, Sara Christiansen
• Dear Dorte, when I started a program with you, I had my doubts about what you could do for me. You said to me: If you don’t get anything out of it, you’ll get some of your money back. You could probably sense my skepticism. I thought…hmm…then she must be able to do something. And wow! I learned better. For many years, I’ve been thinking that I wasn’t worth anything. I’ve had such low self-esteem that you wouldn’t think it possible. Who could possibly love me, and how could I ever believe it if someone expressed that I was lovely? And not least, how could I give love? It should be said that giving and receiving love from my children is not a problem. It’s about love for a man.
  Dorte started with sessions of tapping coaching, and slowly but surely and quite professionally, I cleaned up. First, a feeling of emptiness and loneliness emerged, but then I was filled with all kinds of good things and, not least, the belief that I AM worthy of love and that I AM good enough as I am. Some years ago, I heard a priest give a speech to some confirmands, and he talked about being young and feeling either like an egg – “a hard shell, but soft inside”… or being an avocado – “a hard core and soft around it.” I thought: “Spot on – you’re an egg” 😊. Now many years later and with Dorte’s help, I think: “Yes! Now I feel like an AVOCADO”❤. I feel I’m at peace with myself and last but not least: I AM good enough and I AM worthy of love! Maybe I’m repeating myself, but it can’t be said often enough, because that’s how I’ve started to feel…deep in my heart ❤. Thank you so much, Dorte ❤❤ A. – 48 years
• I am very grateful for the program I’ve had with you. I really notice a very big change and have gained a completely different inner peace. After the last time, I experienced a great feeling of love for my mother, which is very unusual, and I wanted to give her a hug. I visually see the connection between my former “on-and-off” boyfriend and me as two red/golden ropes. I think so many good things have happened to me after visiting you. I feel a calmness inside and a love for myself. It has really been transformative for “being me”. Tina L., Northern Jutland

• Thank you for a rewarding and transformative process. I am now dancing on pink clouds. Have been on an unexpected vacation and had a visit from a fantastic man. Everyone asks what has happened to me because I’m bubbling and look happy, which I actually am! I’m enjoying everything and taking one day at a time, and it’s certainly extraordinary to be me! Lene, 59 years

• I have just completed a fantastic program with Dorte. I have gained greater self-insight, and I can warmly recommend her. Pernille S., Holstebro

• When I started my program with you, I was a bit skeptical and thought that it probably couldn’t make my life that much different. Now after completing the 5 sessions, I not only think, but feel, deep inside, a HUGE difference. I have taken care of my whole person through this process, and it has helped me gain an understanding of myself as a person: why I have acted as I have, and why my entire life has been as it has! I have found myself and felt the peace inside, and have discovered that from now on I can and will speak up if something makes me angry, sad, or hurt. And that is so important, because I have never been able to do that. I have spoken up several times after the program with you – in a considerate way – and listened to myself and felt the joy that I am now so strong that I can do this for myself, such an important tool that I had hidden away throughout my childhood. I have never “dared” or been used to it. I have really changed, also to open up to my feelings and vulnerability.

  A thousand thanks is not enough, can only say that it is such a valuable investment in my entire life ❤ Lone, 44 years

• I received a treatment with Matrix Re-imprinting from Dorte. Normally, I find it difficult to stay with what’s hard when working on my issues (stress and the feeling of not being a “good enough” mother), but Dorte made it easy. She can establish a sense of safety and security in the situation, making it easy to embark on the journey that being in the Matrix is. Thank you Dorte – a major change occurred in my approach to life. Lotte G, Copenhagen

• Dorte took me in at a point in my life where there were many challenges regarding my job situation, being in a relationship with yours and mine teenage children, and not least my lack of self-worth, which I have struggled for many years to change through therapy. Dorte manages with her beautiful personality, smile, and patience to listen and ask questions that uncover and break down the layers that have been built up over many years. Among other things, I have – together with Dorte’s coaching and tapping technique – broken down a negative conviction of being worth less than others because I (in my own consciousness) was a ‘bastard child’ and thus not worthy of love. Now that term only comes up when I think about it, but the feeling that was so closely connected to it is out of my body now. I am very happy that Dorte has helped me get rid of this heavy ‘burden’ that has been a faithful companion since my childhood. I am not the best client because I forget to do my tapping exercises at home, but despite this, Dorte always has an abundance and a heartfelt commitment to embrace me and help me back on the right track again. Mette C., 48 years

• I have had the pleasure of studying with Dorte. In that context, I became familiar with the technique “tapping”. Dorte is very dedicated and has great empathic ability to understand others’ life situations. Her personal and professional experiences make her radiate great professionalism. Furthermore, I know from personal experience that the technique works. I can warmly recommend Dorte to anyone who wishes to make use of her expertise. Lene S., 57 years.

• Dorte was a super good help for me. When I was at my lowest, she managed to get me back up again. I have been super happy with the help and methods that Dorte has used. Tapping, for example, makes you get more out of the conversations – it works as an extra help and definitely makes sense to use. From the first time I was introduced to tapping, I was open to trying it, which I believe had an effect on my healing process. I have had weeks where I felt completely down, sad, and felt that the whole world was against me. After talking with Dorte and using tapping, I felt relieved – as if a heavy burden was lifted from my shoulders. I hadn’t thought that tapping could help so quickly. I thought it helped in the long run – but it worked both right after talking with Dorte and – also to this day. I hadn’t thought that one could feel one’s soul heal in collaboration with tapping, but I could, and it gave me a great feeling of relief. When I first started talking with Dorte, it was because of a really bad experience at a boarding school, which brought up feelings of “being worth less,” “not good enough,” and “antisocial.” The teachers at the school failed to take care of and help me, but Dorte did. I didn’t have the resources to help myself, so we contacted Dorte, who gave me a lot of tools for how I could make myself feel equal and good enough. We found out what could be the basis for these feelings, and dug down to what was deep inside me, which was the cause of them, and which had not been processed when it occurred. We worked on everything that gave me unrest, which has given me a lot of peace. Sofie S., 15 years

• My first conversation with Dorte was marked by tears and anxiety, as my husband of 30 years had left me. She listened and let me release all my anger and feelings of revenge, before gently helping me recover to the point where today, from an honest heart, I can wish the best for my ex-husband. Through various methods, including tapping, Dorte has helped me realize that we must find strength, joy, and love within ourselves: That thoughts like anger, revenge, and bitterness don’t lead to anything constructive. Also regarding our three daughters, Dorte has helped me realize that a “resting in oneself” is the goal, which also applies to all relationships. Without being judgmental, Dorte listened to me at a time in my life when I had lost my desire to live. Unlike others I’ve consulted, Dorte hasn’t given me solutions or made interpretations, but asked questions, so I’ve now come to the realization that I can manage on my own. Using the “tapping” method, she created a connection between body and mind, which has led me to the realization that the body remembers everything – even what I’ve tried to forget with my intellect! Today I have forgiven my ex-husband as well as myself, and I’m now convinced that there are other paths to take in life. When I think back to my condition the first time I met Dorte, and the state I’m in now, I can only thank her for picking me up and making me light-hearted and capable of living again. Status after 4 months: I simply don’t get angry anymore! The anger has left my body. Gitte N., 48 years

• After a session under Dorte’s expert guidance through a process with “tapping”, I went home with a feeling of lightness in my body and a positive attitude toward life again. I now see life with completely different eyes – looking only forward and not back, which I had been doing for many years. I had been plagued by memories from the past, but they no longer occupy me in a negative way. I actually feel like a “whole” person – balanced and completely OK. Status after 6 months: My relationship has improved tremendously. Jette M., 47 years