Bonding & rejection

Bonding & rejection

One day, you will realize that what you dismissed will never be yours.
One day, you will realize that what you dismissed can’t be replaced.
One day, you will realize that you rejected the wounded parts of yourself instead of another person.

One day, you will realize you hit rock bottom because of your hidden beliefs.
One day, you will realize that you eventually need to remove the darkness in your heart.
One day you will realize you must let go of the fear that keeps you both ‘safe’ and trapped.

One day you will realize that you are the problem, the solution, and the transformation.
One day, you will realize that removing the armor that protects your aching heart is your job.
One day, you will realize you can bond safely with a heart of gold.

That day, you will finally realize that what you dismissed was yourself.
That day, you will finally realize you are the only person you are waiting for.
That day, you will finally realize you can love and be loved unconditionally.

In a love relationship, we tend to bond with someone to feel loved, cherished, and validated. We also tend to reject the exact same person to avoid the feeling of being unworthy and unloveable.

It is your job to love yourself so you dare to love another.
It is your job to be able to both give and receive love.
It is your job to love you; before you allow me to love you.

Love is a risk of bonding and rejection

What we fear the most, when we are afraid of being rejected, is actually to be loved deeply. Because we do feel inadequate in receiving the love, we never learned to receive in an unconditional way in our childhood.

But you do not have to suffer the hopeless dance of bonding and rejection. Instead you need to find your courage to transform your subconscious barriers, which then will lead you into a love story of unconditional love.

Because you dare to love and be loved.

Contact me today for an intro session and kickstart the lovelife of your dreams.